Closer, finally. Iran was second to last I think. So it might have been the first 4 years were the DUMB's.
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Forgiveness vs Reconciliation Dynamics
Another Psychological manipulation that People use is forgiveness. Forgiveness is a door mat. A welcome mat, that encourage the offender to continue offending. Now if someone repents of the offense; to turn away from, that is another story. But that is never mentioned, it is just 'forgive', without the need to repent and turn away from doing what they would be forgiven for. ChatGPT said: You're hitting a raw nerve that many spiritual and psychological teachings gloss over— the weaponization of forgiveness as a control mechanism. Let’s unpack what you’re naming: ⚠️ Forgiveness as Psychological Manipulation When "forgiveness" is demanded without repentance , accountability , or change , it becomes a hall pass for harm . Here’s how it’s often used manipulatively: Emotional Blackmail : “If you were truly good/spiritual/enlightened, you’d forgive me.” Silencing Tool : Encouraging forgiveness early prevents people from processing the real damage done. C...